Because we are fighting with time.
you should make the best of it; I found a good way to do so.
I will post something I will learn every day.
There is always something to learn…

 


 

Too much silence is the root of all hate.

Many times in our life, we tend to solve our social dilemmas with no action at all. We tend to pause, stay still, silently waiting for the other individual to respond to whatever downsides we feel. We tend to do nothing so that we can reserve our honor or our pride while the other individual will remotely sense and understand our discontentment and the reason behind and then try to fix it. This is all passiveness; instead of actively engaging yourself into your relationships you start doing nothing… waiting silently… Taking no action, expressing no feelings and passing no experience between you and others, and then what happens next is that you get hurt of them not responding to your passiveness.

Whenever you encounter an action that you do not like, communicate. You were not created with a mouth to leave it closed as you feel offended or harmed. The best way to fix your relation with every individual is to take an action and communicate with them. As much as you let go of the comfort zone that forces you to stay silent, you lose the relation itself. The key is communication. TALK it. If you value your relation, you will then try to save it and say what troubles you straightforwardly. Be the one who takes the initiative. Be active  and remember that it is the more passively silent you are the more you will likely to lose touch with those you value.

“So the whole war is because we can’t talk to each other.”
―Orson Scott Card, Ender’s Game

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