Because we are fighting with time.
you should make the best of it; I found a good way to do so.
I will post something I will learn every day.
There is always something to learn…
Change is inevitable for sustaining a vivid life
Consider a tree; if you thoroughly monitored a life of a plant or tree you will observe that in the beginning phases of its life, the stem is blossoming with leaves, it takes the vivid aspect. It retains such shape until it’s time for the plant to grow a little bit, and then the stem get rigid and then the outer parts of it starts to die so it can bear the outer conditions of air and lighting and be hard enough to bear the whole plant above and then it gets more rigid till it becomes wood. Yet all the plant above is facing the same process, and the more a branch of the stem is required to hold more branches or leaves the more the outer parts of it should die to sustain the growth and nurture the leaves with enough protection.
It is the same with our lives. Always embrace the changes the happens to your heart, your thoughts, never worry about how many will break your heart because in the end you must be strong enough for yourself to grow a little bit in the world. Like the plant that grows towards the light of the sun should you grow towards the light of divine Love. Some parts of your personality may break yet others will flourish and blossom into the one you were destined to be.
I remember this quotation from Douglas Coupland
“And then I felt sad because I realized that once people are broken in certain ways, they can’t ever be fixed, and this is something nobody ever tells you when you are young and it never fails to surprise you as you grow older as you see the people in your life break one by one. You wonder when your turn is going to be, or if it’s already happened.”
The fact is, all what is broken in your personality can be considered as strengths just like the stem, and rather getting depressed about it and resist it, simply accept that you have grown this way to be the one you are and focus on how to be better and manipulate what you have to reach light.
Like the plant focus on the Light no matter which part of you have grown more, no matter which part of you have died more; because at the end you were not made to die.